White men don't want you-and other lies.....

CHOOSE!!! -You can be lonely and unfulfilled, or have hot, steaming love! The choice is yours. Decide what you want, and choose the path that will give it to you....

This was posted on a site geared toward bw, by a bm. Ladies, it's very important for you to learn to recognize one of the many voices of manipulation. This man pretended to be interested in bw, and concerned about their welfare. I can assure you his real concern was for bm only. A thousand times per day we are bombarded with the message that our only solace, companionship, and refuge must come from the arms of a bm. This is so untrue, I get so tired of sistas asking me if wm really like bw! They are so beaten down and indoctrinated into societal lies that they cannot see what is right before them! Yes, many wm most certainly do like bw. Do not believe the hype. Read the following letter from this bm and see if you can spot the many ways sistas are being manipulated into believing wm don't want them, then I will come back in and tell you how to easily snare a good wm.....

By Swade:
Do white men for the MAJORITY find black women attractive? For the most part...no. I have a lot of white friends and few of them talk about being attracted to black women. I'll get the occasional "Beyounce looks good" or "Tyra Banks is hot"..but for the most part..white men don't find black women attractive Threre's a video explaining all this on you tube. Not all Black women have attitudes, but black women in a whole are percieved that way by other races...including her own black men. Think about it..if a black man can't deal with one's attitude..what makes you think a white man can.I know what's coming next.."well, a wouldn't have a attitude with a white man as I would with a brotha". Lets be serious. If white men liked black women as much as the "claim"..why aren't black wmen and white men marriages higher than 5%. Keep in mind..their is a greater population of white males than black males and/or black females. Basically saying...there is a small population of white men who would date black women.Am I saying black women aren't desirable...No. They are..but they are more so desired by black men than any other race. So when you hear black women talk about the "dating white man movement"..you have to consider one thing. "A white man wanting you"
So the question is..where are all these whitemen "supposedly" wanting blk women.

Yes, many wm most certainly do like bw. Do no believe the hype. I think I have told you ladies before but it certainly bears repeating. Never trust someone to tell you how go get out of a ditch, if he benefits by you staying in it! Bm benefit by bw staying lonely, confused, and vulnerable. (IE, easy prey) They well almost NEVER tell you how to attract wm or any other kind. They will also rarely marry bw, and try to keep her for use in their harem, with lies and deceptions. They do not have a sista's best interest at heart, she therefore will never gain from their advice. I, on the other hand, want you all to be happily married, and procreating. The last thing I, and others like me want is for you all to be sad, lonely, and unfulfilled. When it comes to wm, know that many, many wm want you. More wm want bw, than there will ever be enough bw to fill the order. Many more are simply open to a woman of Any color who is a good companion, loving, easy to talk to, and open. Many of you sistas looking for men, are NOT OPEN! You are still afraid of what the bc might say, and your body language/tone of voice is giving you away. It always has and it always will! That is why it is sooooo important to practice being comfortable with any, and everyone. I guess this is easier for me since I came up in a military family and lived all over the US. But with practice, anyone can learn to be comfortable with a variety of people. Just learn to be open. I will tell you a secret that may make this easier. Many men cannot talk to other men about serious subjects in their lives for fear of looking weak. He desperately wants someone he can tell all his secrets to, but many times there is no one who he can trust enough. (especially for Alpha males) Therefore, he is as my grandmother used to say, "ripe for the pickin" You see, just like bm often don't appreciate bw (many times) Most ww don't appreciate their wm either. They are many times (not always) spoiled, and self interested. They want to talk about their day, their dreams, their fears, their aspirations with no thought as to his. Most all men need to desperately talk about the things going on in their lives, just like women. The difference is that we usually have a close friend or relative we can talk to about everything. They most often don't. And if he has a lot of stress or strain in his life, he will need someone to talk to all the more. That means he needs a discreet woman in his life, who he can tell all his deepest hopes and dreams to. Know that if you can suck a man's dream, hopes, fears from his mind, you can easily suck his heart right from his chest! Ask any secretary (no matter how plain) who has stolen a married man. She will tell you that she became his sounding board. He talked to her about EVERYTHING and then he could not seem to be without her. See he had TALKED his way into love with her. Most men don't have affairs because their wives get fat! No, they have affairs because their wives stop listening! Like I said, since he usually can only share so much with his male friends, this leaves him with no one to talk to! Can you see how vulnerable he is at this point? Now, I am not telling you ladies this so you can go out and steal married men! Please don't do that! I am telling you this so you can go out and snag single men. Be open, be friendly, be calm, rationale and have a great ear. Of course you know to look nice, clean, and be in reasonably good shape. but it's much more important to have a pleasant, easy to know personality. Really hear when he's talking to you, don't just wait for him to shut up- so you can talk. (this is what many people do-and it's very irritating) Most of all, don't believe the bull about wm not wanting bw. WM, like most men, want women who want them! You have a thousand times greater chance of pulling a good wm just by being friendly and open, as you do by ignoring him and being cold. If he has never dated a bw, he will be doubly fearful of crossing that line. So if you see him teetering on the edge, reach out a bit and snatch him over-You'll both be glad you did. But whatever you do, know that you are wonderful, wanted, and if you want one-they are definitely there for the taking......Please don't listen to the voice of doom, they don't have your best interests at heart. They will cause you to be worried, insecure, and lonely. These emotions are all a turn off to a potential mate. He is looking for someone secure, confident, and outgoing-or at least personable. So it's extremely important to negate these neg. messages, and EXPECT him to want you. We very often get what we EXPECT from life.....