tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3046913066595294996.post3122200056928519244..comments2023-10-30T09:58:30.080-05:00Comments on Interracial love and spice.....by Sara: When Sex inpersonates love and committment....Taylor-Sarahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/10105589774077925400noreply@blogger.comBlogger11125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3046913066595294996.post-22892048935100911532012-04-27T14:02:52.349-05:002012-04-27T14:02:52.349-05:00Not all bw are going to be brave enough to better ...Not all bw are going to be brave enough to better themselves. Some will remain in destructive lifestyles of one sort or another. <br /><br />One has to be realistic about that. There are trashy ww but those are not allowed to represent all ww.<br /><br />The best you can do is get the message out to as many bw and bg as possible. Many will heed the message and move on to better life, some will remain behind.<br /><br />Again, each woman must make her own choices. It is her right.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3046913066595294996.post-29739702562511654902012-04-17T00:41:06.341-05:002012-04-17T00:41:06.341-05:00i want to respond to "anonymous" about t...i want to respond to "anonymous" about thinking that "dressing more feminine" will make guys treat girls better. yes i agree to an extent, because this society wants to turn women into men and men into women..but also its because women just give up the sex and dont respect themselves and guys, especially teen boys who want sex dont appreciate something they get so easily. i know its unpopular to say but its true. guys will defintely use women for sex and girls instead of becoming abstintent instead become MORE desperate and "put out" even more which in turn makes it worse.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3046913066595294996.post-69496224932378796692012-04-09T05:48:19.830-05:002012-04-09T05:48:19.830-05:00That honestly reminds me of some girls I know. Whe...That honestly reminds me of some girls I know. Whenever I hang out with them the topic of conversation sex and the type of superficial attributes they want in black men. Fortunately they're not too loud and crass about it. I honestly keep quiet and smile and nod. I don't have much to say in these conversations. My boyfriend is Hispanic and white and I no doubt would have to hear their long drawn out opinions on how much non-black men are 'lacking.' It's funny because I brought my boyfriend along recently when we were celebrating a birthday. Some of them were snickering in a corner about how my boyfriend is short (he is in fact not very tall, but he's taller than me). Then one of the girls turns around and starts complaining about how her black boyfriend doesn't call her during the day. She turns to me and asks me how I get my boyfriend to call me during the day. All I could do was shrug and day, I dunno -- I don't have to make him do anything. He does that on his own.Fiinoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3046913066595294996.post-39005612940757243702012-03-21T00:28:44.628-05:002012-03-21T00:28:44.628-05:00That is truly sad how some women think sex will la...That is truly sad how some women think sex will land them a man. The users of women aren't complaining about it though. Yet they turn around and call women names for putting out.Laurennoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3046913066595294996.post-33135867590698060732012-03-20T14:38:11.294-05:002012-03-20T14:38:11.294-05:00Hi Sara,
Could you please DELETE my earlier comme...Hi Sara,<br /><br />Could you please DELETE my earlier comment of today March 20, 2012.<br /><br />I included a few too many PERSONAL pieces of information. Thank you.<br /><br />MsMellodyAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3046913066595294996.post-37921974791424282902012-03-20T05:39:19.287-05:002012-03-20T05:39:19.287-05:00Sara!
Great post. I read this post last nite, and ...Sara!<br />Great post. I read this post last nite, and went to sleep and first thing this morning I felt the need to respond.<br /><br />It is about 5 am here in my city, I just dropped my husband off at our local voting precinct. He is an election judge again this year. <br /><br />As I was driving back home, I thought about those young girls you wrote about. I couldnt help but think about them..and the lonely road that awaits them. THis lonely road will be filled with EMPTY unfulfilling relationships, disappointments and violence.<br /><br />That is - IF they dont change their attitudes and behavior. <br /><br />Now, if they choose to continue this "race to the bottom" activities/behaviors they will be met with so called men/dogs who will do nothing but exploit them, use them, beat them, impregnate them so they can have a place to stay ( the sperm donor ) in the future. Because as we have often discussed - women like this will often suddenly get all "family friendly/orientated" and say.."well he is my baby's father..so he can come and stay here from time to time..I want my baby daddy to know his child...blah blah blah".<br /><br />Any way, I just wanted to express my sadness with hearing a story like this of such degrading/race to the bottom behavior.<br /><br />There was a story this morning over at AOL about a woman 25 years old who slashed the throats of her young children. When doing the math while looking at the story..she has an 8 year old and a 3 year old. Counting backwards she was 17 when she had her oldest..then 22 when she had her youngest..lives in a "towers" apartment ( read public housing/ most likely poor lo-income area)...the USUAL comments " what was going thru her mind to do something like this"..one of her kids was found in a neighboring unit on a couch ( read open abandoned unit in unkept building)..transient population, men who took advantage of women..could come and go...she was filled with anger no doubt of being single, poor and used and abandoned.<br /><br />It just goes to show..the eventual path that these same young women will no doubt experience. ONLY if they do not change their tune..and hopefully SOON.<br />MsMellodyAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3046913066595294996.post-63657380498654189442012-03-15T10:39:00.891-05:002012-03-15T10:39:00.891-05:00Oh man, that's embarrassing.
Everyone loves go...Oh man, that's <b>embarrassing</b>.<br />Everyone loves good sex, but some things are meant to remain private. Why these group of girls though a whole shopping mall deserved to know their sexual exploits is beyond me.Katasha Kayhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01241078372862237016noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3046913066595294996.post-78710280409744494842012-03-08T11:29:43.450-06:002012-03-08T11:29:43.450-06:00What im noticing today is most young girls are act...What im noticing today is most young girls are acting like this with men. It's just bw tend to be loud and embarrasing.Look at many young girls and their eyes seem 'vacant' even the young movie stars of today (not all though). I also see young boys not eve approching girls in a healthy way. Young guys that look under a certain age, when they are with girls are not even holding their hand. It's also rare today to see a young boy put his arm around a girl in public, and it makes the girls more desperate. To verify what is going on, my teenage daughter in her HS said most of the guys that have girlfriends seem to be the player types and the girls 'put out' more to have a boyfriend.This is ALL COLORS BTW. I know it wasnt always like this. I may be wrong, but if the girls dress more 'feminine or pretty' instead of 'sexy' it may change.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3046913066595294996.post-322402081742818192012-03-03T03:44:03.032-06:002012-03-03T03:44:03.032-06:00You know, it never ceases to amaze me why black pe...You know, it never ceases to amaze me why black people love to perform the fool for just a little attention. Are we so starved for attention that we use any opportunity to provide entertainment? Sheesh! Even Oprah seems to be getting in on the act; playing the angry black woman for laughs and ratings. Nooooooo!!! BW, it's a trap (self-made or otherwise). This kind of behaviour only serves to keep us in the 'other' box.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3046913066595294996.post-33014600073810189182012-03-02T23:09:58.851-06:002012-03-02T23:09:58.851-06:00The last line was powerful. I really appreciate th...The last line was powerful. I really appreciate this article.<br /><br />I am so glad that my mother raised me old fashioned. She went through crap and made mistakes. One of the things that I will always be grateful for is that she cared enough not to allow me to make the same ones. She didn't care about being called a hypocrite or letting me make her same mistakes just because she did. No. She gave me the truth and told me straight up that I wasn't allowed to suffer her fate. <br /><br />If more BW mothers would do the same, we see an entire generation of BW that is radically different then what we have now. <br /><br />PeaceAwake. Aware. Alive.https://www.blogger.com/profile/13994023784566586836noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3046913066595294996.post-45175647360246068262012-03-02T23:06:23.371-06:002012-03-02T23:06:23.371-06:00I too have seen these young women. I simply believ...I too have seen these young women. I simply believe most of them do not understand the reprocussions of their negative behavior. Ladies you must be mindful of who you associate.<br /><br />annAnonymousnoreply@blogger.com