tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3046913066595294996.post85097557748087508..comments2023-10-30T09:58:30.080-05:00Comments on Interracial love and spice.....by Sara: Why do some women have all the luck?Taylor-Sarahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/10105589774077925400noreply@blogger.comBlogger2125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3046913066595294996.post-62594689187235527282009-01-14T17:17:00.000-06:002009-01-14T17:17:00.000-06:00Pikacute said:"Sorry about your friend. She really...Pikacute said:<BR/><BR/><I>"Sorry about your friend. She really needs some tough love. Usually I could care less about abortion, but know I can somewhat understand the the pro lifers. Lisa needs to break up with her boyfriend A.S.A.P. The only reason why she thinks she loves this man because she can't love herself...She needs serious soul searching. She needs to cocoon her self and heal. I know you have great judgemnt Sara, but maybe you should stay away from her she seems toxic. No one needs all that negativity.<BR/>Janet is an prime example of what women should be. She shows confidence. She sees herslef as something. You can tell when someone is confident or not. What real man wants a unconfident woman? No REAL man does. Just my 2 cent"</I><BR/><BR/><B> Pikacute I'd advise agianst telling her to abandon her friend. The girl is having a hard time, and the last thing you should do is attack or abandon her. You need to address the situation with tact. Remember there is a difference in being real and being just plain cruel. You should tell her the truth, but try to avoid drawing tears just because you make someone cry does not mean that they got an "aha!" moment it means that you just made them cry. You need to talk to her to the point where she listens and learns. She needs an "Aha! So thats whats holding ME back!" I think when people get into negative situations the ones who should be there for them have a tendency to abandon them. I know we want to avoid negativity, but the reason we are on this planet is to face it head on. We are also here to help others. Your way will do more harm than good because now she will feel like God is punishing her even more, and that her friend does not give a shit about her! She needs help finding a good man, but moreso she needs help avoiding the bad ones after she gets out of her bad situation, and take time out for herself. Find a counselor for her to go to, she might be depressed. It's hard for people with emotional problems to get help. Life isn't fair we are not all born well equipped for life. Do you know how many girls got told that one day they were gonna bloom and men were going to be all over them, but it never happened? Imagine being one of those girls who never bloomed, and then felt that she had to settle for less. On top of that she felt that she had to settle because she wasn't miss social butterfly (introvert; nothing wrong with that) or miss gorgeous! Imagine that this girl has never had a father to value her and be her first love. Love is a learned behavior just like an orgasm. Alot of us were lucky to have people love us before we have loved ourselves. That is why self love is soo easy for some and harder for others. I know how she feels when it comes to morals even when it has nothing to do with dating. Bad behavior is rewarded in life, and bitches get love over good, fun loving, girls. All that aside. She needs to get away from him a.s.a.p! There is nothing there I can't believe she wasted her time like that. The fact that she wasted her time will hurt her more than the actual relationship. She needs to be in the position to receive a new lover, but she cant do that if she's holding on to mr. WRONG! The universe cant give you what you want if your hands are balled up or already full. Help her get her act together.</B>TheVoiceOfReasonhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06214595319360969315noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3046913066595294996.post-4365732873953270072008-09-14T12:17:00.000-05:002008-09-14T12:17:00.000-05:00Sorry about your friend. She really needs some tou...Sorry about your friend. She really needs some tough love. Usually I could care less about abortion, but know I can somewhat understand the the pro lifers. Lisa needs to break up with her boyfriend A.S.A.P. The only reason why she thinks she loves this man because she can't lover herself...She needs serious soul searching. She needs to cocoon her self and heal. I know you have great judgemnt Sara, but maybe you should stay away from her she seems toxic. No one needs all that negativity. <BR/>Janet is an prime example of what women should be. She shows confidence. She sees herslef as something. You can tell when someone is confident or not. What real man wants a unconfident woman? No REAL man does. Just my 2 centAnonymousnoreply@blogger.com