tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3046913066595294996.post713028539880471148..comments2023-10-30T09:58:30.080-05:00Comments on Interracial love and spice.....by Sara: Ugh! How can you love a white man?Taylor-Sarahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/10105589774077925400noreply@blogger.comBlogger75125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3046913066595294996.post-50964106463057784012012-01-05T00:52:01.794-06:002012-01-05T00:52:01.794-06:00Hello, I'm a white guy with a black wife. I un...Hello, I'm a white guy with a black wife. I understand the stupidness you encounter sometimes when you deal with people. I also understand how it can make you angry. <br /><br />Some of these people just don't understand because the way they were brought up. However, they honestly want to know the answer because they want to understand. What is stupid to us may not be stupid to them. It could be a great chance to educate someone stupid if it's handled write. If you bored you can read some of my view points on interracial marriage.TSOhttp://2012-new-year-resolution.blogspot.com/noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3046913066595294996.post-18862289054913172402011-06-07T15:15:34.247-05:002011-06-07T15:15:34.247-05:00Most of the guys I have had crushes on were white....Most of the guys I have had crushes on were white. But I don't only like white guys, I like all guys. But in my town, there are mostly black and white, but mostly white. There is no explanation for why I like mostly white guys... I just do. For years, I have kept it admiration for white guys a secret. Not that I was ashamed of like them. It just that I didn't need another reason for people to make fun of me and tell them that I'm "acting white" or that I'm trying to be white. I didn't start feeling comfortable telling people that I like that white guys, until my 11th grade of high school. Yeah there were so people who looked down upon it. Like this Sunday school teacher at this church I attend. He told us we should be "mixing" because we're ruing our family tree. Well if that’s the case, my family tree has already been ruined.<br />Some people mocked and made fun of me for it. Some people, I shared a common interest with it.<br /><br />But at the end of the day, I could really care less what people think. Liking/loving someone of another race doesn't make me any less of a person who dares inside their race.<br /><br />* Does anyone else find it funny how some black look down of black women for dating interracial, but praise mixed people?EmoFlo2K11https://www.blogger.com/profile/14130210178095950010noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3046913066595294996.post-19928366811699960672011-04-19T18:27:20.154-05:002011-04-19T18:27:20.154-05:00LOL @ Rivly. Your comments make me think that no ...LOL @ Rivly. Your comments make me think that no man worth his soup would want to date you (forget about marry you) without an attitude adjustment.<br /><br />Realistically why would a "model, handsome" type guy be interested in an overweight, shallow, immature woman? This "universally handsome" man you are looking for can pick from a pool of "universally attractive" women as well as the rest of the "average" looking women. So, until you lose the weight (and change that shallow attitude of yours) you probably won't be pulling a model as your man, unless of course you are wealthy.<br /><br />In case you missed it...your stank attitude would be a TURN OFF to any man.OhReally?noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3046913066595294996.post-26625939131197088412011-04-16T00:44:03.717-05:002011-04-16T00:44:03.717-05:00I want a handsome white model man to marry. The me...I want a handsome white model man to marry. The men in these pictures are funny looking or ugly. Handsome meaning over half of the general population thinks so. Handsome like Robin Thicke or Gabriel Aubry. I don't want to hear about beauty being in the eye of the beholder blah blah blah! I am dark skinned. And I'm big, like Raven Symone nonetheless dark skinned like Naomi Campbell, but with a great personality and an ok face. This phenomenon had yet to occur? Can it be done? Dark skinned big + white handsome tall model = happiness forever? Does every handsome American white guy feel that the image they want to withhold wiling destroyed by marrying a black girl not equal or matching them in beauty?Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3046913066595294996.post-72056693712145284802011-04-16T00:36:17.903-05:002011-04-16T00:36:17.903-05:00I really want to marry a white guy. But I'm da...I really want to marry a white guy. But I'm dark skinned. I want a handsome one though. Most of the pictures have non universally good looking men. The men are funny looking or ugly, sorry. :( (Universal beauty is basically more than half of the general population thinking you're handsome examples; Gabriel Aubry, Robin Thicke) I'm<br />Not interested in hearing about beauty in the eye of blah blah blah. I want a white model. Has that ever been done? I've never seen it. I'm dark skinned so keep that in mind. I'm also big (Raven Symone size) and trying to lose weight.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3046913066595294996.post-29413278262692967992011-03-28T23:28:44.543-05:002011-03-28T23:28:44.543-05:00I have been mostly dating outside of my race for a...I have been mostly dating outside of my race for about 10yrs now. I am 29 years old right now. My very 1st white boyfriend was in high school & I definitely had to hear my mother bad mouthing my choice for a long time. Now she is use to it but she still spouts comments such as "you need to watch out for him cause you know all white people are ..." I just brush it off because it is something that might have been more true when she was growing up. I am currently single but black men do ask me all the time why am I attracted to white men. I tell them that I am attracted to men of all different races. But the majority of men, that I come into face to face contact with just happen to be white. I also tell them, there is somebody out there for everybody so don't get mad just cause I ain't attracted to you. lol. That last part doesn't usually go over too well. lol.LaToyahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13674892448241456033noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3046913066595294996.post-29544978353164095982011-03-27T02:13:46.290-05:002011-03-27T02:13:46.290-05:00Same here Juniper :)
I would think the black women...Same here Juniper :)<br />I would think the black women who prefer black men only would scream 'thank goodness', because the women on here are not competing with them. Why get angry...its tons less for you to deal with. We're definitely not looking in the same direction.<br /><br />Xoxo<br />Carib.girlAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3046913066595294996.post-52749644580548939742011-03-17T10:35:36.333-05:002011-03-17T10:35:36.333-05:00Sorry everyone, Have been terribly busy but I prom...Sorry everyone, Have been terribly busy but I promise to find time to post THis week.Taylor-Sarahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10105589774077925400noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3046913066595294996.post-81892461833354746262011-03-07T16:23:47.501-06:002011-03-07T16:23:47.501-06:00Hey Franklin Fan Forever (is that you Aunjaneu Ell...Hey Franklin Fan Forever (is that you Aunjaneu Ellis- loved you in the "Men of Honor" as Cuba Gooding's wife). Keep up your Irishman lovin'. PeaceIrishCoolnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3046913066595294996.post-12276779121815553412011-03-04T22:13:26.684-06:002011-03-04T22:13:26.684-06:00I'm interested in white men because they'r...I'm interested in white men because they're hot. Asian men are sexy too. Nothing makes me happier than a guy who not only is attractive but a gentleman as well. I'm not interested in black men. Black women who only prefer black men should rejoice in that fact. I'm one less woman for them to compete with.Junipernoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3046913066595294996.post-41709057730495194372011-02-21T17:08:27.920-06:002011-02-21T17:08:27.920-06:00I have no idea how I came across this site but whi...I have no idea how I came across this site but while it doesn't really apply to me, I appreciate what you have to say. While in the Air Force in Okinawa, Japan, I dated a wonderful black girl and she caught more flack for it. She was such a beautiful person in all ways..I'll never forget her. I ultimately ended up marrying my wife who is of Korean descent whom I met in Charleston, SC. We have been happily married for almost 28 years. We attend a intercultural church consisting of people from such far flung places as Ethipia, China, Korea, Taiwan, Thailand, India, Kenya, Russia, Philippines, Jamaica and a variety of mixed marriages. One really beautiful couple that are dating (both university students) is a young white guy from here and she hails from Ethiopia. They are seriously in love and I suspect they will end married with each other. Interracial/intercultural marriages are so rich...sometimes challenging....but from my experience the rewards far outweigh the negatives in such unions.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3046913066595294996.post-35054310005299685632011-02-21T12:47:59.209-06:002011-02-21T12:47:59.209-06:00To the anon who asked the dumb baiting question (a...To the anon who asked the dumb baiting question (also stating that bw and bm look alike). I find white men to be more attractive on average than black men. To me, attraction implies something sexual. So in response to your attempt to claim that bw must not be as attractive as ww, I don't find bw OR ww attractive. A bm, bw, ww, Asian man/woman, etc can be good looking but there's no sexual response out of me. Hope that helps.lormariehttp://LorMarie.comnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3046913066595294996.post-35052190598137083812011-02-19T16:17:31.000-06:002011-02-19T16:17:31.000-06:00"The same goes for bw who are gay.
Why would ..."The same goes for bw who are gay.<br />Why would straight bw "care" when that is one less sister to "compete" with them for a bm?"<br />~ @QueenT<br /><br />I hadn't really considered that. But it makes perfect sense. <br /><br />"Whose inner character? There are 650 million black male individuals in the world, each possessing his own individual character."<br />~ @Barry<br /><br />Why don't men like you ever go to the BW bashing blogs & Youtube channels and ask those men how they know the inner character of 700+ million Black women? Would that require too much effort on your part, or do you simply expect Black women to jump through hoops to appease you? Don't bother answering. I think we all know what your lame response might be.Jessicanoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3046913066595294996.post-79723792703062656152011-02-13T15:53:18.686-06:002011-02-13T15:53:18.686-06:00Congrats! Franklin fan forever, I love the pic, i...Congrats! Franklin fan forever, I love the pic, it's absolutely beautiful...i wish you and your husband all the happiness in this world. <br /><br />xoxo<br />Carib.girlAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3046913066595294996.post-16947893752488477692011-02-13T15:16:03.562-06:002011-02-13T15:16:03.562-06:00What would I do? I probably wouldn't respond t...What would I do? I probably wouldn't respond to the doltish comment. I've never been in that situation before (thank goodness), but I will be prepared if it does happen.<br />What do I find attractive about white men? Well, a lot of the wonderful ladies on here beat me to a lot of the explanations why. I've been attracted to them since I was a little girl. The Sexy dark hair and blue eyes gets me everytime, like james marsen :) <br />1. Love how majority of them are so family/goal oriented. <br />2. Love the lips<br />3. Intelligence<br />4. Their style, they don't care what anyone thinks of how they dress..love the vintage tees, and how they look in jeans.<br />5. As I said before, the blue eyes...love it.<br />6. Absolutely agree, that a lot of them take rejection well. If a woman is not interested, then there will be someone else that will. There's no need to call a woman a derrogatory name, and dwell on it..."you a ulgy b**ch anyway" so rude.<br />7. The way they turn red when emotional (cute)<br />8. The way he is secure with himself.<br />9. Very protective.<br />10. Loving every natural thing about you. <br />11. The PDA, holds my hand, shows affection.<br />12. The way he looks at me so adoringly, as if I'm the only woman in the world...etc, etc...that's also how I feel about the guy I've met :) <br /><br />I'm not ashamed or afraid to say WM/AM are attractive to me. I don't care what anonymous or anyone thinks, this is who I am, and no one is going to change me. If you're looking for an apology, then you will be waiting for the rest of your close-minded life. No one gets upset when a BM says he doesn't find BW attractive...deal with it.<br /><br />Great post Sara and I love the comments :)<br /><br />Xoxo<br />Carib.girlAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3046913066595294996.post-29550180153124196682011-02-13T10:20:43.261-06:002011-02-13T10:20:43.261-06:00Here's my new post about how black women CAN g...Here's my new post about how black women CAN grow long hair without being mixed.<br /><br /><br />http://blackwomenselflove.blogspot.com/2011/02/black-women-can-grow-long-hair-without.htmlAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3046913066595294996.post-4178742360183600682011-02-10T09:19:21.162-06:002011-02-10T09:19:21.162-06:00it's their inner charater (or lack thereof) th...<i>it's their inner charater (or lack thereof) that I have issues with....</i><br /><br />Whose inner character? There are 650 million black male individuals in the world, each possessing his own individual character.Barrynoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3046913066595294996.post-61504748618942113362011-02-10T09:11:29.491-06:002011-02-10T09:11:29.491-06:00@Jessica
The same goes for bw who are gay.
Why wo...@Jessica<br /> The same goes for bw who are gay.<br />Why would straight bw "care" when that is one less sister to "compete" with them for a bm?<br />I have come to this conclusion<br /><b> Somebody gotta love a BW! </b>QueenThttp://www.Youtube.comnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3046913066595294996.post-17127606324175101102011-02-08T23:20:05.557-06:002011-02-08T23:20:05.557-06:00"What strikes me as so very funny is it's..."What strikes me as so very funny is it's always these angry black women types that can't understand it or better yet can't get any quality guy much less a quality white guy to look their way. These are the types that have been scorned/burned by black men and can't let it go."<br />~PA<br /><br />I've noticed this too. I have, on occasion, asked such women why they cared who I was attracted to. If they really preferred BM as much as they claim, why wouldn't they be overjoyed that I wasn't into BM also? After all, there are far more Black women than Black men. Doesn't my disinterest help BW who want a BM? <br /><br />They never actually answer that question. They will say something vulgar or nothing at all. I suspect they really want non-Black men themselves and are irritated and frustrated that not only do I "date-out" but quite regularly and happily. I have NEVER had a "dry spell", unlike the women who ask these stupid questions.Jessicanoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3046913066595294996.post-25440749775025873842011-02-08T15:31:55.740-06:002011-02-08T15:31:55.740-06:00Sara
Thank you for posting my comments.
I will co...Sara<br />Thank you for posting my comments. <br />I will comment no further on this matter.Tracinoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3046913066595294996.post-27957880997154053832011-02-08T14:24:22.910-06:002011-02-08T14:24:22.910-06:00Traci.
First of all none of us (I imagine) even kn...Traci.<br />First of all none of us (I imagine) even knew you and Pam were addressing each other. But to be perfectly honest when you came back saying SHE was attacking you, it seemed the other way around to me. You should not have even mentioned her. If she has nothing to do with your life, then leave it that way, and don't mention her in a perjorative way...<br /><br />Having said that ladies please remember we share a common purpose here and it is NOT to argue amonst ourselves.....<br /><br /><br />Anon.<br /> the reason I did not address your silly comments is because 1st of all I make it a point NOT to address comments from ppl who don't even have the backbone to leave a name. And 2. I think my preference is obvious to anyone who can read....I don't feel the need to justify it. But I will say that I do find bm very attractive, my disputes with them have NOTHING to do with exterior attractiveness, it's their inner charater (or lack thereof) that I have issues with....Taylor-Sarahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10105589774077925400noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3046913066595294996.post-79364310717496408532011-02-07T22:51:06.735-06:002011-02-07T22:51:06.735-06:00If you guys are really tired of black women being ...If you guys are really tired of black women being stereotyped and you want something to change. Please help us in signing this petition to have this commercial for the 2011 superbowl canceled because it's stereotypical and demeaning towards black women.<br /><br />http://www.dawnali.com/lovinmysistas/index.php?topic=1909.msg17717#msg17717<br /><br />http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=eX7oYAygWOQAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3046913066595294996.post-61643741810369372722011-02-07T17:46:52.955-06:002011-02-07T17:46:52.955-06:00The angry black woman superbowl commercial is gene...The angry black woman superbowl commercial is generating alot of hype on the news and blogs. If you missed it.. it was aired over 107 plus million veiwers with a unattractive black woman hitting her husband and attacking a pretty "blonde white girl" when her husband oogles at the ww. Not only does it enforce every sterotype.. That black women are suspose to be ugly and BM do not have to explain their attraction to ww it is understood. They would have never shown a white man looking at a thin attractive dark skin black woman aganist a fat white woman. Shame on pepsi!! As a matter of fact pepsi was not the only culprit there were several other sublimial messages in this commercials often showing bm and ww pairings like the ferris wheel commercial. Any ways but we have to explain why we our attracted to wm. The media continues to want to feed wm and men of other culutres images like this especially of dark skin bw to say that bw are the most undesirable.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3046913066595294996.post-63240036914901998912011-02-07T14:06:14.428-06:002011-02-07T14:06:14.428-06:00To Pamela/PA…what a fool believes (part II):
PAME...To Pamela/PA…what a fool believes (part II):<br /><br />PAMELA, unlike you, I’m not going to list the things that I have or accomplished because I’m too busy actually DOING things! Take a hint, people that really have made major strides in their life don’t sit around writing about it. That just proves to me that after two years your life is truly (still) a mess. <br /><br />PAMELA, You truly are a damaged beyond repair female to be thinking about someone (me) who should be a mere blip on your radar. We weren’t childhood friends. We were two people who met at a Meetup that no longer communicate. If your year is going so well, I shouldn’t be as important in your life as you are making me out to be. I haven’t spoken to you, seen you, acknowledged your presence in years! I mean really you are no one to me! <br /><br />PAMELA, people that truly have high self-esteem don’t go around attacking people after thinking about them for years. You need to grow up and get a damn life!<br />Oh, but before you get that life, you need to check yourself into a mental institution. Something is obviously “off” with you. I was warned to stay away from you but I was trying to be nice and make another friend. The moment we parted ways was a major relief to me. <br /><br />And PAMELA…just so you are clear and not confused about this, I’m a heterosexual female! HETEROSEXUAL! Like I said this little obsession you have over me really needs to stop.Tracinoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3046913066595294996.post-42303039257790354472011-02-07T14:05:10.509-06:002011-02-07T14:05:10.509-06:00To Sara and others:
First I want to apologize for ...To Sara and others:<br />First I want to apologize for this comment, but I’m being personally attacked on this blog post by Pamela/PA and I feel I need to address it. Sorry all. There are some deeply disturbed Damaged Black Women out here. You remember that film, Single White Female? Well, this is Single, Black Female.<br /><br />To Pamela/PA…what a fool believes:<br />This is supposed to be me right? “a monster or tasmaniandevil ala tracie-w.” <br /><br />PAMELA, This little obsession you have over me really needs to stop. I haven’t spoken to you in years (since 2008), and have not thought about you since then. For you to write about me in your comments proves to me that you think about me A LOT. Gee, thanks! All this thinking/writing about me shows I must have really made an impression on you for you to attack me like you are doing now. Do you want my autograph too? <br /><br />PAMELA, In your comments you have basically taken things I have said to you when we were communicating and twisted the words and meaning around. A lot of what you say in your comments is untrue and a lot of the things you are saying that I have done, YOU are the one doing them, and you know it! People that know me, that really know the person I am, knows that the DAMAGED person you are writing about IS NOT ME. It is YOU. <br /><br />PAMELA, The comments you have made actually made me laugh at how crazy you are. People that I have shared this with THAT KNOW YOU can’t believe how crazy you have become since we all last seen each other. Yes, my dear, I still speak to several of the people that were in the same Meetup group we were in. So I have credible sources that can back up everything I say now about you. ;-P<br /><br />Now, that’s great that you say your life is going so well. But let me just say this, if your life is going so well, why in the world are you writing about me? Why are you focusing all this attention on me, someone whom you have not spoken to in over two years? (and by the way, I don’t believe one word of what you are saying about the condo and the man…because in the world of the internet, anyone can claim anything, without proof to back it up. Hell, I'm Halie Berry's twin sister!! Why? Well…because I said it in the Internet - so it must be true, right?!?!?!)Tracinoreply@blogger.com