tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3046913066595294996.post5852118589939845937..comments2023-10-30T09:58:30.080-05:00Comments on Interracial love and spice.....by Sara: The art of Covert Nefarious Delusion, and how it's used on bw.....Taylor-Sarahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/10105589774077925400noreply@blogger.comBlogger138125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3046913066595294996.post-54998701070045518192009-11-11T15:45:44.812-06:002009-11-11T15:45:44.812-06:00I meant to say I'm so glad my parents have rej...I meant to say I'm so glad my parents have <b>rejected the ideology of the Acting Black Crew!</b><br /><br />It's so good to have a family of sensible people and it's so good to be free too!Lenanoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3046913066595294996.post-54125282218768801652009-11-07T13:05:39.361-06:002009-11-07T13:05:39.361-06:00@ Merrie
"Soon to my surprise, some AA girls...@ Merrie<br /><br />"Soon to my surprise, some AA girls joined in making fun of me. This further drove me to hang out with the white crowd."<br /><br /><br />Some AA women are seriously DBRBM identified. They will do anything for a head pat from the men who hate their guts. <br /><br /><br />"I seriously wanted to see some black guys but there were none and this shames me so so much."<br /><br />Remember you are not responsible for the choices that others make or don't make. What they do or don't do in this regard is no reflection on you. We are separate from them.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3046913066595294996.post-76070556198773050722009-11-07T13:01:12.932-06:002009-11-07T13:01:12.932-06:00@ A
Wow. Just wow.
"My ex. bw friend used...@ A<br /><br />Wow. Just wow. <br /><br />"My ex. bw friend used to asked me questions about my sex life with my ex. I always tried not to go into details because I felt that was personal and I was not as opened about sex as she was."<br /><br />That is um wow. I couldn't see myself going into explicit sexual details with a woman about a man I am currently dating and have feelings for. Ok I wouldn't have done it at all. <br /><br />If the relationship was over and it was bad - that is one thing. <br /><br /><br />I think she was pumping you for info/grooming you the whole time. It sounds like a set up and a plan to me.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3046913066595294996.post-87569968379497530332009-11-04T16:06:53.270-06:002009-11-04T16:06:53.270-06:00Sara I really love your blog. I've been readin...Sara I really love your blog. I've been reading for a while now and you have no idea how many times I visit this website just to hear what you have to say. I seriously, totally, and completely agree with your message. First of all, I'm a 19 year old African girl. I say african because I was born in Africa (Nigeria) and moved to the United States when I was 12. I'm currently a journalism major and in an interracial relationship. Ever since i came to this country, i've noticed that black boys/men have no respect for themselves and for black women. I hate it when i see them in baggy pants, listening to loud music, and harrassing everything in skirts. You should hear the things they say. Its so explicit. This was a culture shock for me bc in Nigeria, the boys there definitely didn't act like this. Its honestly the most embrassing thing in the world. I was part of the nonors society in my high school and took advanced placement classes. I can still remember having AA boys saying that i was acting/talking white and that i needed to know that i wasn't better than them. Soon to my surprise, some AA girls joined in making fun of me. This further drove me to hang out with the white crowd. Duriing graduation, I graduated with a scholar diploma, which is the highest honor in the school. Me and my friend, a black girl from barbados were the only blacks to graduate with this honor. I seriously wanted to see some black guys but there were none and this shames me so so much. I remember going to a doctor's office a while ago and I saw two AA male doctors. This made me so proud. I was happy about this and i can't help but to wonder why there are so few of them. All AA boys/men want to do is play basketball/football. They don't care about their education in anyway.This obviously explains your earlier post about the AA football player with 11 kids from 10 different women. Ever heard of condoms? There was once a AA boy who got in D in our history class. He started complaining about how the white male teacher gave him this grade bc he was black. This got on my nerves bc I got an A and i'm black. Besides all this guy did during class was text/complain about how it was boring. He never turned in any of his homework. Even in college, i continue to witness these same behaviors. Unlike some AA girls, my parents do not feel like i have to be loyal to AA men and i'm glad. Sorry for writing so much but i just wanted to let it all out. I'm sick of seeing iresponsible AA men all over the place. Keep giving the message Sara. <br />PS: I'm definitely waiting for more stories from you. I love Donnely Place. Please write more!You would make a good author. That story was outstanding. It gets an A plus from meMerrienoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3046913066595294996.post-32931469222717265402009-11-03T22:06:30.923-06:002009-11-03T22:06:30.923-06:00@ Lisa-just-Lisa...You too are correct. Just becau...@ Lisa-just-Lisa...You too are correct. Just because another race man will date a bw does not mean he will date all bw.<br /><br />Confession time...<br />For two or three years I shared an apt. with my ex. bestfriend a bw who was deep into bm.<br />When we moved into together my ex. who was from Bangladesh/am- he was attending school out of town. My ex. bw friend used to asked me questions about my sex life with my ex. I always tried not to go into details because I felt that was personal and I was not as opened about sex as she was. She had more than her fair share of bm friends. I never met a woman who loved sex as much as she did. Her motto was, "No man comes into my apt without me seeing his #ick." <br />LOL, I can hear the men asking for her phone number.<br />Flash forward a few years- we went our own separate ways. One day I decided to reconcile our freindship because we did have some good times and she helped me out alot with my son. She was very happy to hear from me and I too was happy. She told me thanks to me she was now dating foreign men. LOL...blame me. Only, thing is this guy is married and she seemed to be OK with his marriage. The guy told her that he was not going to leave his wife. <br /><br />One night we were talking on the telephone and I had this flashback of an old Jenny Jones show and without hesistation I asked my old friend what did she do with my ex. when I was not in the apt. And, she lol and said, "When did I ever have time to do anything with him?" Again, without hesistation I said, "Every time he came to visit and I went to work or took our son to the baby sitter." They had hours and hours to do whatever and I never once thought about back tracking to check on the two of them. I really thought my ex. best friend and I had an understanding...I don't touch any of your men and you do not touch my one man. I used to ask her don't you want your own man? And, she would always say, "Yes." <br />This woman has never been married, does not have any children and lives with her mother to help her Mom with her bills. <br /><br /><br />a.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3046913066595294996.post-58407864563838321122009-11-03T13:12:32.157-06:002009-11-03T13:12:32.157-06:00@Truth annon 2:28 is speaking the truth and giving...@Truth annon 2:28 is speaking the truth and giving you some good advice. These so called "friends" have friended your man on Facebook WTH. If you're not even sure you want them as friends why in the world have you made it possible for them to friend your man? My advice 1. de-friend these women on FB 2. make your list of friends private 3. watch your back. One thing I've noticed about some bw is that they believe any wm who dates or has ever dated a bw is interested in any or all bw:-)) I know that sounds absurd but I've witnessed it and I've even heard bw say things like "well you know he's into the sistahs" like now every bw has a chance with this particular wm! Surround yourself with good and positive people, you don't need these women in your life.the lion cubs playbookhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01536612804624576290noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3046913066595294996.post-15001840610244556042009-11-03T12:39:45.822-06:002009-11-03T12:39:45.822-06:00But S do you think celebs like Gerard Butler are r...But S do you think celebs like Gerard Butler are really hiding their preferances in regards to women that they date? I can't just easily say something like after long-famous men such as Robert DeNiro, sorry I can't.<br /><br />Robert DeNiro's been on the map since The Godfather and Taxi Driver, and he's been associating himself with bw romantic interests even before his wife Grace Hightower came along! <br /><br />But can you really say that DeNiro hid all of 'his BW' away in a box or something? Or is it just that all of the paparazzi take EVERY picture that any hot celeb is in BUT THE MAGAZINES ETC. THAT THEY SELL THEM TOO JUST DECIDE TO PICK AND CHOOSE WHAT THEY'LL USE FROM WHAT. THEY. WON'T????<br /><br />How come on websites like Perez Hilton or TMZ I see gerard Butler or whoever out with some known or unknown black woman clearly on a date of some sort? Media of the Internet Age will clearly keep EVERY kind of tab on these celebs but we KNOW traditional AMERICAN media especially doesn't like all of these 'tabs'.<br /><br />If Americans would just travel more or at least hop into NYC every now and again (LOL) they'd be familar with HELLO! magazine, a British celeb magazine that will take ANY picture of any hot celeb or famously iconic celeb. Or even to look at the French PARIS-MATCH magazine.akhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01821918420194865921noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3046913066595294996.post-32957174568400822302009-11-03T12:39:29.925-06:002009-11-03T12:39:29.925-06:00But S do you think celebs like Gerard Butler are r...But S do you think celebs like Gerard Butler are really hiding their preferances in regards to women that they date? I can't just easily say something like after long-famous men such as Robert DeNiro, sorry I can't.<br /><br />Robert DeNiro's been on the map since The Godfather and Taxi Driver, and he's been associating himself with bw romantic interests even before his wife Grace Hightower came along! <br /><br />But can you really say that DeNiro hid all of 'his BW' away in a box or something? Or is it just that all of the paparazzi take EVERY picture that any hot celeb is in BUT THE MAGAZINES ETC. THAT THEY SELL THEM TOO JUST DECIDE TO PICK AND CHOOSE WHAT THEY'LL USE FROM WHAT. THEY. WON'T????<br /><br />How come on websites like Perez Hilton or TMZ I see gerard Butler or whoever out with some known or unknown black woman clearly on a date of some sort? Media of the Internet Age will clearly keep EVERY kind of tab on these celebs but we KNOW traditional AMERICAN media especially doesn't like all of these 'tabs'.<br /><br />If Americans would just travel more or at least hop into NYC every now and again (LOL) they'd be familar with HELLO! magazine, a British celeb magazine that will take ANY picture of any hot celeb or famously iconic celeb. Or even to look at the French PARIS-MATCH magazine.akhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01821918420194865921noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3046913066595294996.post-89208422215254750262009-11-01T14:28:05.502-06:002009-11-01T14:28:05.502-06:00@ Truth
You are a better woman than I, because ...@ Truth <br /> <br />You are a better woman than I, because these cows would not be on my facebook or any other type of book talking to my man. Hell to the NO. No, stay your butts out of my loop. Go and find your own loop with the bm you ladies like to defend. Be careful one of your facebook friends may be trying to meet up with your man behide your back. Some of them are probably wishing they were in your place and had your nerve to live your own life. <br /><br />Continue to be true to yourself and do not allow others to intimidate you.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3046913066595294996.post-46574003659212727472009-11-01T12:02:08.878-06:002009-11-01T12:02:08.878-06:00Hi Truth, I'm sad that you had to go through a...Hi Truth, I'm sad that you had to go through all that, but you are right. You must be true to yourself. There are many bw who are hopelessly attracted to wm, yet will hide it, and deny it for the sake of not wanting to be ostracized. I learned a long time ago that life is too short to try to live it pleasing others... So glad you made it out...Taylor-Sarahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10105589774077925400noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3046913066595294996.post-18067019066864817802009-11-01T11:52:41.000-06:002009-11-01T11:52:41.000-06:00I have to say that as I read the comments in this ...I have to say that as I read the comments in this blog I felt both a weight lifted and my breath taken at the same time. I am a BW madly in love with a WM. Since I feel a safety here, I too feel compelled to share my story of "My Great Exodus". <br /><br />My mother was with a WM for many years. I have a mixed sister (I never refer to her as my half sister). <br /><br />I was always referred to as an "Oreo", "sell-out", "wanna-be" and a host of other names due to my propensity towards proper use of grammar. Silly as it sounds. I'd never felt accepted in the BC. The BBs that I crushed on didn't date me but chased after WGs. I dated WB s who dared to defy society and vibe on commonality.<br /><br />In hindsight, it was counter-intuitive that I would join a BGLO in college 10 years ago. My affiliation brought with it instant popularity and instant turmoil. I have always had a target on my back because of looks and ability. I'm not hyping myself up but I know what God gave me and favor ain't fair. Before I know it I was knee deep in a cypher of jealous snakes. I was in an IR at the time and we were talking marriage. I was so in love up until that time then at every turn forced to explain, defend and protect my relationship from jealous, ignorant and surprisingly racist people that looked just like me...my "sisters" and even my best-friend since high-school. Due to their constant interference my relationship ended badly. Since he was in a BGLO himself, the rumor-mill never ceased and our allegiances to our organizations became conflicts of interest in our relationship. We tried to reconcile but had to date in secret. It was too much for either of us to move forward from.<br /><br />I have spent the better part of the last decade trying to reconcile my identity as a "BW" and my natural attraction to and from WM. Feeling uncomfortable in my own skin because I couldn't be true to myself around people who professed to care deeply for me. The need to be accepted overshadowed the constant ribbing from BW who shared the same attraction to WM but were too brainwashed by the BC to step out and do their own thing. Utter confusion to say the least. Like fire shut up in my bones, I knew I didn't belong and the more my actions rebelled against the status quo, the more my soul was grieved constantly. As I approached turning 30, I new a change needed to be made or I'd drown in a sea of regret forced to settle for marrying against the biological clock or bitter and lonely as the majority of my "sister friends". <br /><br />I made the decision to move with a friend who was established out of state. I left my church but took the word with me. I truly stepped out on faith. I was free but yet again my decision to date a WM drove a bigger wedge between so-called friends. This has been a year of letting God sift away the mess and so I am accepting. I changed my number, stopped replying to every post on my social networking page and withdrew! It has been the scariest, most wonderful, freeing and introspective time of my life. I met my man on a dating site. We were matched on compatibility and attraction is just the icing. My so-called friend stays in touch with those that I left and felt compelled to discuss my relationship with them. As soon as I found out she was cut off as well. I'm convinced that my relationship is as strong as it is because I don't talk about it with them. They have all friended him on the site in an attempt to "stay in the loop". Ridiculous. They are all played with a long-handed spoon because misery loves company and people hate what they can't understand and kill what they can't control. When we marry I doubt I will invite them because there is a history of mistrust and back-biting. Deep down that hurts but I'd rather spend perpetuity in marital bliss with the man that loves me unconditionally than stuck at the hip with people who don't accept me or my choices. To thine own self be true!Trutothyselfnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3046913066595294996.post-46571272541861576552009-10-30T01:19:38.024-05:002009-10-30T01:19:38.024-05:00Also, I wonder why Jessica and Sean's relation...Also, I wonder why Jessica and Sean's relationship has been given so little attention by the media. No, I don't wonder, I already know why. I just don't understand why white women can't handle rejection, they aren't babies, they need to grow up and act like grown women and stop whining about a man's preference.lolAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3046913066595294996.post-86862168111848906262009-10-30T01:16:16.692-05:002009-10-30T01:16:16.692-05:00goodness Sara, I am seeing a patterm White women t...goodness Sara, I am seeing a patterm White women thinkt that it is racist for a white man to love black women and not them. I mean as if they are the center of the universe, the end all be all. That is very narcissistic. But I did not expect much more from them, women who are accustomed to being fluffed up and pampered by the media. Read the comments on Sean Penn's imdb board relating to his girl Jessica White.lol. Some of them are positive but I see hints of racism. <br /><br />http://www.imdb.com/name/nm0000576/board/thread/147420941Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3046913066595294996.post-24956879130686361702009-10-30T00:31:42.661-05:002009-10-30T00:31:42.661-05:00I'm not saying the woman has to act in an unsa...I'm not saying the woman has to act in an unsavory manner. Don't know where you got that from my post. I mean bw need to get out of the black folx only club. He we need to get out the bm only club.<br /><br />Secondly if you are around people who are in the same boat as you trying to get to where you want to get and they have less power than you then how are you helping each other? How are you helping yourself? You network with those that have the power to get you where you want to be. It could be producers, directors (who do have more clout and control), actors (same with as with directors). Hell make a film where you cast yourself.<br /><br />Think about this the studio didn't want Whoopi Goldberg for Ghost, but Patrick Swayze as much astold them that if she wasn't going to be in the film then neither was he. Guess what? She ended up in that movie. Talk about star power. She was smart for her networking. You can't say that woman doesn't control her image. Whoopi had movies where she was the lead and had white male interests (especially when you listen to how black men talk about he looks)So now she is the woman with the star power or at least control and she has done a lot with it from movies to game shows.Welcomehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06873814449216446881noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3046913066595294996.post-57930423797748435232009-10-29T21:36:04.336-05:002009-10-29T21:36:04.336-05:00I think a lot of the black actresses have the same...I think a lot of the black actresses have the same mentality as do w/ their dating life. Their waiting on the perfect role for black women. I hear it every time with their interviews..."well they don't have a lot of roles for black women"...well i say make it a role! do you think most of Halle Berry's films were meant to be for a black woman (and don't give me well she's light skin so they'll give her the benefit of the doubt. no she's still black and she's said herself that often they don't giver her the role because of that, even after her oscar win).<br /><br />Denzel and Will have learned the art of the game... CONNECTIONS! it's not necessarily about your talent, its who you know and going after movie roles even if they didn't ask for you. Hollywood is a business, so you have to be business oriented, or get out the game.<br /><br />I hope the next generation of black actresses like Zoe Salanda understand that and get with the program.skyhttp://www.youtube.com/skypurple15noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3046913066595294996.post-66728442739264138262009-10-29T18:17:38.333-05:002009-10-29T18:17:38.333-05:00I dont think its fair to say they havent "gon...I dont think its fair to say they havent "gone after big wigs" in hollywood. I think a true woman who carries herself well and has good intentions for herself and partner will go after a man but wont announce it on the roof tops that she is seeing or pursuing said individual. I am sure that white male execs have dated their fair share of all races of women including black women (be it actresses or models) because mentaltieis are changing. If you have a pretty face OR carry yourself with confidence and intelligence then the possibility of having a date is there.<br /><br />I dont think its fair to say bw actresses havent.AlmondEyesnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3046913066595294996.post-35038774176126061882009-10-29T17:11:42.971-05:002009-10-29T17:11:42.971-05:00Frankly,i am sick of these guys hiding BW because ...Frankly,i am sick of these guys hiding BW because that's what it looks like to me.<br />Seeing as they have all that power being WM and all they really don't HAVE to do that.<br />it's just getting old that's all and i'll admit it makes me fume.<br /><br />Just because he's white doesn't mean he has power especially in Hollywood. The ones within Hollywood who have power are Studio Exec. Producers the bankrollers and the actors that do have control of their careers. Hell Denzel, Will etc. have recently gotten more power over their image and money in Hollywood. Think about how long Denzel has worked in Hollywood and been a major star. Same goes for many other actors and actresses. You need that star power and mean real star power a la Julia Roberts there are not that many male or female, black or white that have star power (at least to me on the level of Julia Roberts or hell even what Patrick Swayze had in his prime.<br /><br />That's why I don't get why black actresses haven't gone after the big wigs in Hollywood instead of actors (unless they have some power over their careers or big star bankable power) or writers (who have almost no power). Heads of studios, producers have way more power over the director (who can be fired and replaced in a hot minute who has power over the actor. Just because actors and other celebs have image power doesn't mean they have power over their image. And crew (I've been crew mostly on low bud shorts and even a feature) are considered lowest on the totempole.<br /><br />I guess I'm trying to somewhat connect Sara's earlier post. Seriously if you want to move up the social ladder or any ladder why would be choose to be around those with no poer.Welcomehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06873814449216446881noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3046913066595294996.post-77202496120520705662009-10-29T16:29:42.337-05:002009-10-29T16:29:42.337-05:00"So you think I need a therapist because I fi..."So you think I need a therapist because I find it offensive that he is repulsed by white women? You must not be white then if you’re not offended. If he didn’t like asian or black women, then he’d be a racist. But he doesn’t like white women and that doesn’t make him prejudiced? Isn’t that a little one-sided?"<br /><br />I'm sorry until their men go on youtube, tv, magazines and bad mouth them and say things like they are unattractive, they don't do white/light butts. I can't see how he's hating. Please what does she say about bm that only date white women or other non-bw. I bet nothing, because she would be with one of these fools in heartbeat.Welcomehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06873814449216446881noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3046913066595294996.post-77306627917637012162009-10-29T16:22:16.440-05:002009-10-29T16:22:16.440-05:00http://www.stylelist.com/blog/2009/10/29/blackface...http://www.stylelist.com/blog/2009/10/29/blackface-on-americas-next-top-model<br /><br />If black women don't understand why this is wrong we are in a sad state indeed.<br /><br />There is a term in Cultral Anthroplogy that comes to mind<br />Hegemony a stratified social order in which suborinates comply with domination iternalizing their rulers' values and accepting the "naturalness" of dominion. <br /><br />In other words Subordinates execpt <br />hiearchy as "natural"<br /><br />Now I'm not saying we are lowly or something, but this term does apply to how many think. Many think it's natural and don't question why a white woman or other women are being painted black to be portrayed as black models.Welcomehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06873814449216446881noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3046913066595294996.post-80434918008514413052009-10-29T13:49:04.145-05:002009-10-29T13:49:04.145-05:00S said...Frankly,i am sick of these guys hiding BW...S said...Frankly,i am sick of these guys hiding BW because that's what it looks like to me.<br />Seeing as they have all that power being WM and all they really don't HAVE to do that.<br />it's just getting old that's all and i'll admit it makes me fume.<br /><br /><br /><br />to me S i don't think they are hiding it. I believe(if we're talking about hollywood) that the MEDIA is hiding it. The media is a ww's fantasy playground, where she can imagine herself w/ any man in hollywood. Doesn't matter the color. That's why whenever women like Hedi Klum/ Kim K. gets with any of any race, they are quick to put her on the cover. Trust me if Jennifer Aniston starting dating Michael Jordan, it'll be all over the headlines. But if John Mayer started dating let's say Alicia Keys there would be silence, or they are just "friends" going out for coffee. <br /><br />The media knows how to clear things up to relieve ww, and not make them worry. You see a lot of ww are like bm, they are the ones who want to be dating/marrying out, not the opposite gender because they need to know that they have some kind of support system if things don't go where they had planned. Hence why "Liz" had a thing against GB because the women GB dates don't look like her therefore, she can't imagine herself w/ him, which makes it more frustrating, and then dubs his racist against ww *eye roll*, no different from what bm do to bw.<br /><br />So I don't think the men are hididng it, the media is. Look at Shia Lebouf, Sean Penn, Brad Pitt, George Clooney who are never mentioned in the media for dating a black woman. They'll name everyone but the bw. A lot of people don't know that Brad Pitt once dated Robin Givens and another black women. It wasn't until I read his biography from PEOPLE's magazine celebrity books that I found out.<br /><br />Whenever they don't mention George Clooney/Shia Lebouf for a long time, I often wonder which bw are they dating that the media try to hide from us. You notice how they get excited when George starts dating a bartender? hmmm....<br /><br />and trust me one day these guys are gonna go "f**k it!" and start dating and marrying bw and not care what ww think. It'll happen, trust me. Look at Matthew McConhay(sp) who saw that coming. Did anyone even know that he once dated Janet Jackson, yeah i thought so.skynoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3046913066595294996.post-10400898813690886422009-10-29T13:10:14.497-05:002009-10-29T13:10:14.497-05:00ahh,good ol' gerard butler.
love his scottish ...ahh,good ol' gerard butler.<br />love his scottish accent but not so much his attitude.<br />look, i know some WM/non-bm have this attitude that they think they're a wee bit above BW even if it's very subtle.<br />Now, i'm not saying gerard feels this way but i don't like the way he feels the need to "Hide" his preference like so many other high profile WM celebs do when and if they're into BW.<br />All of the sudden everyone is starting to play match maker and start rumors about him that he is dating jennifer aniston and any other plain jane WW celebrity/actress out there.<br /><br />Frankly,i am sick of these guys hiding BW because that's what it looks like to me.<br />Seeing as they have all that power being WM and all they really don't HAVE to do that.<br />it's just getting old that's all and i'll admit it makes me fume.<br />that said, you can't beat preference, you can't stop and say "no,i refuse to date my preference and will date only WW because that's what everyone else wants!" that is, if you have a REAL genuin preference for someone and it's not just some one night stand thing.<br />What i'm trying to say is, if gerard has a natural preference for BW, he can't NOT date BW. I know because people told me to start giving asian men a chance because they just like me are at "the bottom of the....you know what" and i tried, i really tried to be attracted to them and even went out with a chinese guy once and i felt horrible! because although he was nice and he was genuinly attracted to ME , i wans't attracted to HIM and i couldn't go there...i have a natural attractions towards WM and no matter what, i can't fight that just like gerard can't fight his attraction towards BW.<br /><br /><br />And Lorna, even though WM didn't attack kanye they way most BM attack...anyone, really, when they see red they DID make it known that they didn't approve. <br />Kings of leon band member nathan,insulted kanye and said something to the effect "how dare he take away the beautiful taylor swifts moment and i haven't seen a worse haircut since '84".<br />I look at it this way: WM do not have to insult and behave childishly by callig him names they have enogh power to just shut him out...just look at him after that happened and how he appologized over and over again because he knew if he didn't he'd be in REAL trouble.<br /><br />I agree that most BW do not have eachothers back and see eachother as competition which is really sad since no other race of women do this and if they do it's on an individual basis not a collective one that they know will affect the whole group!Snoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3046913066595294996.post-63419445236683502322009-10-29T13:03:33.968-05:002009-10-29T13:03:33.968-05:00wow, i previously read somewhere of hollywood male...wow, i previously read somewhere of hollywood male actors wanting to date darker bw but did cause it would cause a stir w/ most of your fans (mostly ww), dang, i didn't realize how true it wasUnknownhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/18177665646499778173noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3046913066595294996.post-12372729441464621832009-10-29T13:00:36.024-05:002009-10-29T13:00:36.024-05:00O please Gerald. B ain't losing sleep over the...O please Gerald. B ain't losing sleep over them. You know how many fans GB has around the world and she thinks her membership card is so important. *eye roll*. But you can tell her this cause I have no reason to argue w/ ignorance, men do what they want, when they want. they don't need our approval.<br /><br />Lady Noir, even if you presented them with the quotes they'll still find some excuse for them. Just like there are some people on here trying to excuse the quotes as something else. How about this, why don't you quote their nasty remarks as a reference for their sexist and racist behavoir. They are no different from the ones quoted on the post. I don't see why they would need a reference anything used aganist bw is a plausible reference to them. I'm surprised they don't have these quotes haning up on a poster in their bedroom/basement.skyhttp://www.youtube.com/skypurple15noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3046913066595294996.post-68685971568398229182009-10-29T12:39:09.773-05:002009-10-29T12:39:09.773-05:00Interesting Anon.
They call it a preference when ...Interesting Anon. <br />They call it a preference when it's done to women of color but it's a definite no no when done to them! That's really too funny. At lease he's never made nasty remarks about ww, or outright said he would never date one because they're loud, fat, ugly, too dark etc. He's been very classy, and has never demeaned them in any way. If they want to take exception with his preference (although -they'll shout in a minute "Wm don'do it for me-I only want _______ fill the blank) He has a right to want what he wants, they're just mad because he's so smoking hot and sexy....Taylor-Sarahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10105589774077925400noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3046913066595294996.post-44622413967842231002009-10-29T10:13:53.863-05:002009-10-29T10:13:53.863-05:00I know this is an old conversation and I didn'...I know this is an old conversation and I didn't know where to put this but I just wanted to bring to everyone's attention an interesting conversation going on over at the Just Jared site. It concerns Gerard Butler and his penchant for non-white woman. A ww started a fervor over there when she basically said that she wouldn't be supporting GB anymore because he was racist again ww. I am providing the link and the conversation gets real interesting around post #77 which states<br /><br />"He doesn’t like women other than women of color? WTF is his problem? So he’s a racist when it comes to women and doesn’t think white women are attractive? If he hasn’t had a long term relationship with a white woman recently, then it’s got to be true. If that’s the case, then I’m no longer a fan. I’m fine with dating whoever you want, but not when you exclude an entire race. That makes you prejudiced. Hating on your own race is really bizarre. Why does he hate white people?"<br /><br />To read more:<br /><br />http://justjared.buzznet.com/2009/10/26/gerard-butler-undercover-biker/all-comments/#commentsAnonymousnoreply@blogger.com